In The American Media, Russian Mail Order Brides Are Often Portrayed Either As Docile Victims Or As Gold Diggers In Search Of Money And Green Cards Rarely Are They Allowed To Speak For Themselves Until Now In Dreaming Of A Mail Order Husband, Six Russian Women Who Are In Search Of Or Have Already Found U.S Husbands Via Listings On The Internet Tell Their Stories Ericka Johnson, An American Researcher Of Gender And Technology, Interviewed These Women And Others The Women, In Their Twenties And Thirties, Describe How They Placed Listings On The Internet And What They Think About Their Contacts With Western Men They Discuss Their Expectations About Marriage In The United States And Their Reasons For Wishing To Emigrate Their Differing Backgrounds, Economic Situations, And Educational Levels Belie Homogeneous Characterizations Of Russian Mail Order Brides.Each Chapter Presents One Woman S Story And Then Links It To A Discussion Of Gender Roles, The Mail Order Bride Industry, And The Severe Economic And Social Constraints Of Life In Russia The Transitional Economy Has Often Left People, After A Month S Work, Either Unpaid Or Paid Unexpectedly With A Supply Of Sunflower Oil Or Toilet Paper Women Over Twenty Three Are Considered Virtually Unmarriageable In Russian Society Russia Has A Large Population Of Women Who Are Single, Divorced, Or Widowed, Who Would Like To Be Married Yet Feel That They Have No Chance Finding A Russian Husband Grim Realities Such As These Motivate Women To Seek Better Lives Abroad For Many Of Those Seeking A Mail Order Husband, Children Or Parents Play Significant Roles In The Search For Better Lives, And They Play A Role In Johnson S Account As Well In Addition To Her Research In The Former Soviet Union, Johnson Conducted Interviews In The United States, And She Shares The Insights About Dating, Marriage, And Cross Cultural Communication Of A Russian American Married Couple Who Met Via The Internet. I just finished this for an Anthropology class It really opens your eyes to the realities and struggles these women face I had a hard time putting it down, great read This book is written by a friend from High School Good to know she is doing well Very interesting to know that other s are going through the same thing I ve very grateful to be in the USA where being single does not carry that much of a stigma I also feel fortunate that our economy is stable. Well researched glad I read it for a better perspective on mail order bride autonomy and motivation.
- 208 pages
- Dreaming of a Mail-Order Husband
- Ericka Johnson
- 14 September 2018 Ericka Johnson